Emotions. Sometimes they just overwhelm me, take over my thinking, and my behaviour becomes completely irrational. Or at least, later I realise that it was a little ‘out-there’ and I probably could have responded with a little more self-control. Or could I? Ever wonder why, sometimes when you respond, the other person goes quiet or …
Ever wondered about your natural scent and whether anybody else notices it? Maybe you enjoy the smell of others. Some of us might have a secret fetish and some of us just love the smell of our lover. We love their sweat, their neck, their dirty clothes (or maybe not quite the dirty clothes). We …
Flirting is behaving in a playful way towards someone, as though you are sexually attracted to them. The intent may be innocent, and the act might be just for fun or amusement. It might be written, spoken or non-verbal. Generally, men will tend to overestimate a lady’s friendliness as her having sexual interest whereas a …
The thought of your marriage being over will bring with it a bucket load of emotions! Sadness, guilt, disappointment, relief, anger, rage, happiness, worry, stress and fear are all natural feelings but as tough as it is to make a marriage a success, sometimes they come to an end. Sometimes a marriage will have a …
You just don’t fancy your partner anymore? Having sex with them is more like a chore! It does not matter here whether you are a bloke or a lady, relationships change, people change, and guess what? What you enjoy changes! What can make it worse for you is if you have feelings for someone else, …
What’s a bloke’s ultimate embarrassment? Running into a wall with an erection and breaking his nose! Maybe. Seriously though, struggling with getting it up or keeping it up is your worst nightmare so I am going to share my tips and tricks around understanding the difference between performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction, and perhaps provide …
Or should you? Is it up to a lady to empower their partner or is it up to them, to empower themselves very much like it is not up to them to empower you? Only you are responsible for that. You are responsible for your role in the relationship though, and both of you contribute …
Do You Have Bored Housewife Syndrome? I am writing this as a forty-something year young housewife, with a mob of kids between 5 and 15 and a career that, oh hold on, career? Did I say career? Or was that autocorrect for carer? Yup. That’s my life – I am a bloody carer! A carer …
Guys! Did you know that around 95% of heterosexual men orgasm during sex with a woman? Only between 50 – 70% of women orgasm through sex with a guy. But I have great news for you – it is not all on YOU! A female’s body is not so straight forward and only around 60% …
Righto! Here it is… a question we all ask at some point! You are going to all the effort, you text them first, you plan the dates and you buy the gifts. You look sexy for them, you ring them and unless you initiate the conversation, then they just never seem to make the effort. …